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The Messenger of Allah (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “A man is upon the religion of his friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.” (Jami at-Tirmidhi)

We are very heavily influenced by the company we keep. Slowly and without us noticing, though perhaps others might, we adopt the thinking, habits, beliefs, mannerisms and lifestyle of our friends. So it is therefore crucial that we choose friends who will remind us of Allah (swt), keep us on the right path. They should be people we can learn from, people we respect and admire.  People we will also help to improve on a daily basis. 

Nowadays we think a friend is someone who will support you no matter what.  Because that’s what society tells us a friend should be. It’s what we see on Friends, and 90210. But when you make a choice that you later realize was a big mistake, don’t you feel even the slightest bit upset that your friend didn’t warn you or tell you that it wasn’t such a good idea? When our friends ‘support’ us through bad decisions and keep quiet, we think ‘oh what great friends I have, being our backbone’ but in reality; not only are they not doing you any good, but they are harming you. They don’t let you distinguish between right and wrong. They make you think that whatever you choose to do is the right thing. You will then pick up on what they believe is right and adopt their habits and their lifestyle, and you might end up going down the wrong path in life. Would you call that a good friend?

Remember that a friend is someone who might not always tell you what you want to hear. Yep, that’s right, it might hurt at times, but  that’s exactly how you know they genuinely care for you and are helping you to stay on the Sunnah.

Surround yourself with people who you know are trying their best to stay on the right path. People who love Allah (swt), people whose goal is to reach Jannah. You will start to pick up on their good habits, do the good deeds that they do, love Allah (swt) too and have the common goal to enter Jannah InshAllah.

Be upon the religion of these friends.

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